7 Warning Signs Divorce Might Be in Your Future—And What to Do About It

No one walks down the aisle expecting to get divorced. But sometimes, the cracks in a marriage become too deep to ignore, pointing to potential 7 warning signs of divorce. If you’ve been asking yourself whether divorce is on the horizon, you’re not alone. Recognizing the early warning signs, like those we will explore in this article, can help you prepare emotionally, financially, and legally for what may come next. Where do you start…

The early temporary orders stage

1. Constant Fighting That Never Resolves

Disagreements are normal in any relationship. But if every argument ends in shouting, stonewalling, or days of silence without resolution, it may be a sign the marriage is breaking down.

2. Living Separate Lives Under the Same Roof

When you and your spouse share a house but not a life—sleeping in different rooms, avoiding family meals, or making major decisions independently—it can signal more than just a “rough patch.” These are among the 7 warning signs indicating the potential for divorce.

3. Loss of Trust

Trust is the foundation of marriage. Infidelity, secrecy about money, or consistent dishonesty often make repair difficult—and sometimes impossible.

4. Financial Stress and Secrecy

Money is one of the leading causes of divorce. Hidden accounts, unexplained spending, or constant fights about bills and debt can drive a marriage to the breaking point. Being aware of these financial warning signs might help you spot a potential divorce situation.

5. Your Children Are Feeling the Strain

Kids notice tension. If your children seem anxious, withdrawn, or caught in the middle, it’s a clear sign that something needs to change—for their sake as much as yours.

6. You’ve Stopped Imagining a Future Together

When you picture your future—holidays, retirement, or even next year’s vacation—does your spouse play a part? If not, this emotional detachment might be one of the early signs you are heading towards a potential divorce.

7. You’re Thinking About Divorce (Even Reading This Post)

The fact that you’re here means the possibility of divorce is already on your mind. That doesn’t mean it’s inevitable, but it does mean it’s time to prepare.

What to Do Next

If you recognize these signs, don’t panic. Many couples benefit from counseling or mediation before deciding on divorce. But if you believe separation may be ahead, the best step you can take is to learn your legal rights now.

At Fiegel Law, we help individuals in San Antonio and Helotes navigate divorce with clarity and compassion. Whether you decide to move forward or not, knowing where you stand can give you peace of mind.

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Beauregard Driller Fiegel

Attorney, President

Beauregard Fiegel was born to Lt. Col. Driller Fiegel and Sondi Lynn Fiegel, MBA-HCM, RN, LSSGE on March 31, 1985 in Ruston, Louisiana. He graduated from Warner Robins High School in Warner Robins, Georgia in 2003. From there he went to Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. He graduated in 2007 with two separate undergraduate degrees; a bachelor’s of arts degree in Philosophy with a concentration in Religious Studies and a bachelor’s of arts degree in Political Science with a concentration in Political Theory.