Document Enforcement Violations in Texas
A Guide from Fiegel Law, PLLC Learn how to document enforcement violations in Texas family law cases effectively with our expert guidance.
When you have a court order: whether it’s for possession, child support, visitation, property division, or anything else, you should be able to rely on it. But when the other party refuses to follow that order, the situation can become stressful, disruptive, and legally complicated.
In Texas, proper documentation is the key to building a strong enforcement case. Without evidence, even the clearest violations can be difficult to prove. Here’s a step-by-step guide from Fiegel Law, PLLC on how to protect yourself by documenting each incident correctly.
1. Save Every Communication
Courts rely heavily on written evidence. Keep copies of:
- Text messages
- Emails
- Voicemails
- Messages on parenting apps (OurFamilyWizard, Talking Parents, etc.)
- Social media messages or posts relating to the violation
Tip: Take screenshots and save them in a dedicated folder. Title each file with the date and a short description (e.g., “2025-02-14 – Denied visitation”).
2. Keep a Detailed Incident Log
Every time an order is violated, write down:
- Date and time of the violation
- Location
- What was supposed to happen based on the court order
- What actually happened
- Who was present
- Any witnesses
- Any communication surrounding the incident
You can use a notebook, a Google Doc, the Notes app on your phone, whatever you will consistently update.
The goal: Create a clear timeline that shows a pattern of non-compliance.
3. Record Missed Exchanges or Denials of Visitation
Visitation and possession violations are among the most common enforcement issues. Make sure to:
- Arrive on time
- Take a photo showing you were at the correct location
- Note the time you arrived and left
- Keep proof of your attempt (texts, calls, doorbell cam, etc.)
Pro tip: A quick photo with a timestamp can make or break an enforcement case.
4. Track Child Support Payments (or Missed Payments)
If the issue is child support, document:
- Payment receipts
- Bank statements
- Pay stubs
- Printed records from the Texas Child Support Portal
For missed payments, keep a running list of dates and amounts owed.
5. Preserve Evidence of Interference or Harassment
Some violations involve more subtle behavior, such as:
- Interfering with phone or video calls
- Withholding school or medical information
- Making unilateral decisions
- Harassing communication
Document everything. Save screenshots, record dates, and keep copies of school or medical documents you were denied.
6. Gather Third-Party Evidence When Possible
Useful third-party evidence includes:
- Police reports or incident numbers
- School records
- Medical records
- Witness statements
- Daycare sign-in/sign-out sheets
These sources provide objective proof that strengthens your enforcement claim.
7. Organize Your Evidence for Your Attorney
When you’re ready to involve an attorney, bring them:
- Your incident log
- Screenshots / messages
- Photos
- Official records
- Payment history
- Any prior court orders
The more organized your documentation is, the faster your lawyer can prepare a strong, targeted enforcement action.
8. Do NOT Confront or Retaliate
It’s tempting to argue, fire back messages, or “prove a point.”
Don’t.
Aggressive or emotional responses can be used against you.
Stick to the order, keep communication calm, and let the documentation speak for you.
9. When to Contact Fiegel Law, PLLC
If violations become:
- Repeated,
- Intentional, or
- Harmful to you or your child
It’s time to seek legal help. Proper documentation allows us to file for enforcement, request remedies, and ensure the court sees the full picture.
At Fiegel Law, PLLC, we help parents protect their rights and hold others accountable. If you believe the other party is violating a court order, reach out. The sooner you start documenting, the stronger your case will be. Contact me for more help!
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